"I knew Miss Smith intimately the last thirteen years of her life. [...] Her course of life was quiet, thoughtful, uneventful. There were no startling episodes, no wild romances in it. She built few castles in dreamland or in love-land. Life was serious, real, to her. She walked with her feet on terra firma, not in the clouds. She was a woman of high sentiment, but not sentimental. She never uttered diatribes against married life, but she always commended it; yet she was content to remain unmarried, fully persuaded that was the life God meant for her."John M. Greene, "An Address at the Centennial of the Birth of Sophia Smith," 27 May 1896, p. 17f. |
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"Miss Smith often spoke of her childhood and her youth. She retained vivid and pleasant recollections of them. I think she regarded them as the happiest periods of her life."John M. Greene, "Sophia Smith," Hampshire Gazette and Northampton Courier, 2 March 1914 |
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Because few family records survive, little is known about Sophia's early years. Her journal, which she kept for the last nine years of her life, is primarily a record of her spiritual development but also includes discussions of events of the day, her travels, and the books she was reading. |
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| The past week has been a trying one on some accounts. My girl domestic
has been very disorderly. She seems very wilful, throwing off all restraint,
setting her own will in defiance of rule and authority. I have already
put up with more from her than is consistent with a proper dignity as mistress
of the house. I want wisdom from above to get along with her.
Sophia Smith, journal entry, 27 June 1864 |
Sophia became an expert spinner and housewives were anxious to obtain
her fine thread in return for other commodities. -- Nor was Sophia an extravagant
housekeeper. There is a story that she scolded her maid so severely when
she found her about to use an egg in a loaf of ginger bread that the maid
lost her temper and threw the egg at her mistress.
Marion Billings, unpublished paper on Sophia Smith |
While many girls of her era were given a meager formal education, Sophia appears to have had more educational advantages than most and demonstrated a keen thirst for knowledge. Her pastor, John M. Greene, recalls Sophia telling her that as a girl she used to sit on the steps of the schoolhouse in the morning and hear the boys recite their lessons, "with the hope of picking up there some crumbs of knowledge," as girls in Hatfield at that time received their lessons only in the afternoon. She read avidly and widely throughout her life. Such passion -- which included poetry and prose, newspapers and magazines of social, political and literary commentary -- not only portended her future contributions but may also have helped her endure the tragedies of her adulthood.
Besides the schools in Hatfield, Sophia Smith attended a school in Hartford, Conn., for twelve weeks when she was fourteen years old. After this she was a pupil for a time in what was later known as the Hopkins Academy in Hadley.
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